Tips to parents will help children make the most of the school year

Special to The Criterion

As a parent and an educator, Gina Fleming knows the impact that both roles can have on a child’s education.

Here, the superintendent of Catholic schools for the archdiocese offers five tips to parents to help their child make the most of their school year.

Trust. “Trust that your Catholic school leaders, teachers and staff members care deeply for your child and all others they serve. Though you may not always agree, trust that your child’s best interest is at heart. (And when you don’t agree, come to the table together to discuss. You will find that you have far more commonalities than differences.)”

Communicate. “You are your child’s first teacher. Catholic school leaders and teachers look to you as your child’s greatest advocate. Share what you know about your child’s spiritual, intellectual, social, emotional and physical strengths and needs. Be open to hearing what these professional educators witness as well. You are modeling the keys of effective communication for your child on a daily basis.”

Engage. “Take advantage of the opportunities to share in the formation of our youths by getting involved in volunteer activities and on boards, commissions or committees that serve the parish and/or school.

Engage in service learning projects, Masses and other celebrations of our faith. Not only will you have a better sense of all that your child experiences, but you will also model for him/her the importance of good stewardship.”

Maintain high expectations. “Your child is a special gift from God. He/she is capable of great things. While children learn differently and at varied rates, all can learn and grow. Support your child by enforcing healthy study habits, good work ethic, perseverance and persistence. Insist upon personal best in behavior, attitude and performance.”

Be the Christian example our children deserve. “You have already shown your love for your child in countless ways, one of which is choosing Catholic education for him/her. Your actions, attitudes and behaviors speak much louder than words. Consider the example you set when at home, at school, at the ball field, in the arrival/dismissal line, and throughout the community.

“Our children rely on each of us to be the face of Christ to all we encounter, so that in turn, they can be Christ to the world.” †

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